Saying No: Scenario II

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You and your partner have been in a relationship for a month and has been suggesting you move on to the next step in your relationship by getting intimate.

 

 

Your partner leans in for a kiss but you didn’t feel ready.

 

 

You are not sure that you are ready to take the next step...

 

 

 

How would you respond?

Tell your partner immediately that you are not ready yet.

You have the right to reject anything that is uncomfortable for you. If you do not wish to advance your relationship to the next stage, you should be able to tell your partner to stop.

Remember, even in a relationship, you are under no obligation to agree with what your partner suggests, and you do not need to feel bad for rejecting them. 

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Try and dodge the kiss

While this is not wrong, as dodging is a non-verbal sign that you are uncomfortable with what is happening, there may be individuals who choose not to recognize or interpret it that way.

Do not allow them the opportunity to argue with you or dispute your intentions. Do not be afraid to state it clearly if you are uncomfortable with something.